Embracing change and having Faith

Hi there, I hope you are doing spectacular today.

 I have not been able to write for many reasons, but I can honestly say that, although, I have not been blogging for long, I missed it dearly.

 I have been in a shifting mode lately. There has been a couple of changes and adjustments that I had to learn to accept. However, I'm very excited for all that is to come, since change always means we are in a brand new chapter in life. Starting a new journey makes me happy because it only means that I am evolving.

At first, it appeared blurry and scary. It had me questioning many things , but that is where my faith came in. Faith in GOD, my higher source, the Universe; faith that all is well.

 Maybe you are dealing with a shift in your own life and you are finding it hard to accept. So, I come to you with words of encouragement. Life is full of surprises and blessings in disguised. When life brings you an unexpected or an unwanted situation, it is up to you, and you alone to see the good in it. Many times, its hard to deal with the new. But if you begin to see change, whether it be good or "bad", as a great thing you can accept it and enjoy the journey. If you find it hard to view the positive, picture this: You are entering a ride in a amusement park. In the beginning you might feel scared, nervous, worried, anxious, and excited all at the same time. You might want to skip that ride and not go through with it, however, when you know that you're safe and all is well you get the courage to go on. Once all is done and over with. You realize how much fun you had. Yes, it was a bit scary, but in the end, it was all worth the ride. That’s what life is, a big fun roller coaster. You have moments when you're soaring high, so high that you can touch the sky, nevertheless, we all have downhill moments; the times when it feels like you're going down so fast there is no possible way of stopping. But when you know, that this is just a ride, you have faith that it will go back up, and then you realize that it was all part of the fun.

Being able to see life as a safe place where you came to enjoy, will help you through those tough times. I am very happy to know this, and I realize that everything that I go through will help me reach my highest potential. I have big dreams and aspirations for myself, as I am sure you have for yourself too. Don’t waste your time here on earth by comparison, jealousy, anger, or any of the negative vibes. My wish for you is that you deal with the good and bad the same way. Smile and remember that life is beautiful no matter what is going on in your path right now. We have all heard it before: "The sun always comes out after a storm." Believe it and stay strong during those times. In the end, it all works out.  You're amazing, you can't forget that.  I am sending much love and joy your way. Don’t lose your SPARKLE and enjoy the ride. Embrace change and see it as a brand new page in the most exciting story ever. It truly is, because that story, is yours.  Let your faith be so strong there is no time to hesitate.

 

xoxo, Lety

A letter to my children

A letter to my children:

 
 Be who you are not what others expect you to be. Love your life with all you are and don’t mind what others think. Smile, laugh,  go on adventures, live because you only get one life. Try new foods visit new places, do all that you ever dreamed of and don’t look back. Keep your head up high and SPARKLE with all you have. If you love something keep it and when you find a passion pursue it until you reach the top. Don’t give up on your first fall stand tall then go at it again. Always remember that you are a divine being and you can achieve anything your heart desires. Be positive and listen to your inner voice. If you ever feel lost it will re-direct you to the perfect place. I too will remain with you, if you ever need a helping hand mommy will always be here to help in anyway I can. But I hope you find your own way and allow endless positivity into your world. You are perfect in all your imperfections. See all the beauty our universe provides and remember that you are unique. You are love and god is within your soul. I love you with all I have but I hope you remember that the love you need is your own. At times, life might get blurry and its okay for it too, your job is to find the light not get stuck in the midst of a shaky road. The path you walk is your very own so don’t compare yours with any others. You were born with amazing talents use them wisely and make a positive impact in someone's life. My precious angel you will always be, but I know you were born with wings to sore high and learn as you go. I will do my best to live by example and guide you as I learn alongside with you. I know, you will make yourself proud because that’s what truly matters, don’t live to please me, live to please your soul. I love you dear and one day, if you decide to parent too, you will understand the love I feel for you.

With my heart filled with so much joy and love I dedicate this to my precious angels Brandon -Kaithlyn - Marcel

I love you to infinity and beyond, Mommy

Don't lose your SPARKLE

By sharing with you all, I hope it inspire you to write to your children and remind them of how incredible and loved they are.

 XOXO Lety

The power of I AM

         

 The power of "I AM" how many of you have heard of this before?
 There is an incredible force behind those two words. No one else can speak them for you. You are the only one that can say I AM for yourself. What follows I AM, is what you are claiming to be. How do you represent yourself? What are your "I AM"s like? Many times, we say things like: I am dumb, I am lazy, I am broke, I am fat,  I am in need of something, I am not where I want to be, and so on. They are not helping you reach your highest potential. The words we speak, have a lot to do with the lives we live. Therefore, we should began to use our words wisely. Speak of yourself as you would like to be.

 Before I realized the impact those words had in my life, I was like most people, saying things without even realizing that they were affecting my reality. Being upset and speaking of all the wrong in my life was a daily thing. Complaining was normal, everyone around me seemed to do it. I thought it was the way to live. Then, something amazing happened, I began a positivity journey in the year of 2010. Through my journey, I have found god within and truly feel at peace with who I am. I have always been free spirit and enjoyed doing things my way. For me, it was a slow yet natural process. New people began to come into my life, and many "friends" left it also. The first sign of actual change that I noticed was my attitude. I was so much happier when I claimed "I AM HAPPY" those were and still are my favorite words. Once you begin to truly love yourself, take care of yourself, and speak great about yourself a shift starts. Things move for your convenience, and only those who are on the same frequency level as you, are near.

I feel truly blessed and find joy everywhere.  My children have also allowed me to see the world through glittering eyes and the magic in the simplest of things. I am glad that I followed my instincts and allowed myself to see the good in all. You too can start a change in your life as soon as tomorrow by just claiming the right "I AM"

I would love to challenge you. Start right now. Begin to say:

  . I AM BEAUTIFUL

  . I AM SMART

  . I AM SUCCESSFUL

  . I AM LOVE

  . I AM FRIENDLY

  . I AM ONE WITH GOD

  . I AM PEACE

  . I AM ABUNDANT

  . I AM HEALTHY

  . I AM POWERFUL

  . I AM CREATIVE

  . I AM A GREAT MOTHER

  . I AM HAPPY

These are just some examples. You can say anything you want after your I AM. Remember that you have to believe it, and don’t mind others perspectives of you. You can change your life by just starting to change a few words. As long as you believe and have faith, things will always workout for you. Of course, like anything else in life it takes consistency and lots of faith that things will began to look like you have imagined. We all have different beliefs and points of view. This is just a simple way of being nicer to yourself and making a positive impact in your life. It really is amazing what two simple words can do. Don’t judge others or speak negatively towards anyone. Honestly, it says nothing about the person you are looking through negative eyes with and it says everything about your need to judge. Remember, that true beauty comes from within. You are a beautiful soul that has the power to do great things. Life is beautiful so go enjoy the beauty in it.

 

Xoxo,  Lety 

 

 

 

 

                

Everyday is a gift

                                                        keep your face to the sunshine

                                                                           and

                                                            you cannot see a shadow ~

                                                                    Helen Keller

Hi there, I hope that you are doing marvelous today. The sun is shinning bright and trees are standing tall. We are breathing healthy air and a fresh hour awaits. Magic is always near, it's just waiting to be seen by you. I am feeling extremely joyous today. My children are healthy, my home is clean, and the weather here is AMAZING. Many things to be grateful for. I notice the simplest of things, like the moving leaves of a tree, the butterfly that flew right by, and the birds that sing outside the open window. Those things remind me that everyday is a true gift. I don’t take for granted anything that I know, is here for me.  My wish for you on this magical day, is that you encounter bliss. Be aware of everything; notice how the universe is such a beauty and how blessed we truly are to live in this wild, yet beautiful place. A little message to brighten your day, nothing big just a reminder that you too can see through glittering eyes. Be happy and share love. The weekend is here, and Valentines day too, go make great memories with those you love. Enjoy all the love and smiles; hug your children extra tight, and surprise your partner by doing something extremely nice. Remember your friends that are always there for you too. With that in mind, I thank mine. Thank you for the endless laughs, support, and the memories that will never die.

Furthermore, I thank you all so much for stopping by and giving me your time, but most importantly, for the love that you give.

Here is a music video of one of my favorite songs. I hope you enjoy it as much as I do.

Super Mom

 

 

How many roles do you take up daily while being a mom? If you think about it, we have over 50 roles to master daily. All from CEO of your house hold, to a chauffer, personal trainer, nurse, and chef (and many more roles to go down that list). Today, take the time to acknowledge all the hard work you do on your everyday lives. You are such a wonderful mommy, an incredible friend, daughter, and sister. Many times we take for granted all that we do as mothers. We don’t give ourselves enough credit for being Super MOM. Realize that you are a beautiful and awesome woman. Whether you're a working mom that hustles for your family, a volunteer at your children's school, or a stay at home mom; being a mother is always equally important to all of us. I know for sure that, you love your children deeply, and your number one role is to be the best mother possible. However, to be the best super mom, take care of yourself, love yourself and pamper yourself. I've met many mommies while becoming one myself. I've met young mommies, older mommies, grand mommies, working mommies, stay at home mommies, and step mommies. One thing has been consistent, all mommies need time for themselves, and although, the children are the main priority, caring for yourself should be up there in your priority list too. It doesn’t have to be expensive, a little can go a long way.
 
Here is a list of 10 things you can do in 15 minutes or less that will boost your energy and leave you feeling refreshed and cared for.

. Exercise ( it can be anything from going for a walk, run or jog. Maybe you enjoy to dance or lift weights.) the important thing is to keep your body moving.
. Read ( reading is so relaxing and it keeps your mind running and stimulated.) You can learn so much from a good read.
. Meditate ( meditation is very important for your overall health it gives you so much energy and peace of mind) it only takes 5 minutes.
. Bathe ( a warm bath is also a great way to pamper yourself and feel glamour's) hey, add a glass of your favorite wine and maybe a book. Enjoy and come out feeling like a new women.
. Makeup ( giving yourself time to put makeup on and beautify yourself is a great and easy way to feel glamourized )
. Fix your hair ( take time to fix your hair, blow dry it, curl it, straighten it or even cut it.) change your look from time to time.
. Jewelry ( it can be a necklace or ring, bracelet or earrings. I personally love, a nice watch. Jewelry can enhance any look and can give you that extra sparkle.)
. Shoes ( we all love shoes and having a cute pair for everyday can help you be super mom while looking amazing)
. Music ( listen to music, it somehow has a wonderful way to distract and motivate you.)
. Lingerie ( sometimes as women, all we need is to feel sexy, and what better way than to wear a beautiful peace of lingerie to bed) Girl, your hubby will benefit from it too.

You are a super mom; therefore, you deserve to feel incredible at all times. Be the women of your dreams. Love yourself and take care of yourself. You can do it all while feeling fabulous and looking your best. Make time to care and pamper yourself every now and then. Not only will you enjoy your day more, but everyone around you will sense it too. Whether you know it or not, you will always be super mom for your little ones. It only takes a few minutes out of your day to do something nice for yourself. So go on super mom, your kiddos are counting on you.

If you have any tips, go ahead, and let me know. I will love to hear your mommy tips too.

                                                          with love, Lety

You are worth it

With this quote swirling in my mind, I get the courage to write my fist blog post. Its amazing how easily we can talk our selves out of doing something we want. The unknown is scary, I know, but you know what's even scarier? Going the rest of your lives wondering the what "ifs". We all have dreams and desires that somehow end up fading away; we simply forget about them. Maybe you haven't realized what it is that you want to do (and that’s okay too) However, I challenge you to find a dream and go after it, do something today that will get you closer to it tomorrow. You are worth having everything you ever imagined. The trick is, that you believe in yourself, know your worth, and realize how truly amazing you are. It can be hard to start but remember to take it step by step, you will eventually get there. Stay confident, have faith, and do it with love and joy. I am on a new journey my self and at times it gets very scary. There are moments when I wonder if I have what it takes to actually pursue it. Can I figure it out? What if I fail? Is it worth all the work I'm doing? All these questions come to me daily. I can easily fall into my own trap and stop, but I choose to ignore those voices and focus on the good. I HAVE WHAT IT TAKES!IT IS, WORTH IT! I WILL SUCCEED! Those are friendly voices that I listen to. Following my instincts has been a great way to get closer to my desires. Once I let go of fear, I found strengths that never knew were in me. When you let go, something amazing happens; confidence comes flowing in and you allow yourself to move forward. You will realize many things about yourself when you no longer let fear dictate you. If you allow negativity to hang around it will stay and control you. Start training your brain to see the good in all. You will be surprised of all the magic you encounter in your everyday lives. When you allow yourself to see the beauty of each day it's like you unlock a secret door. People are nicer, you notice birds singing, and everything runs a little smoother. Many don’t realize how powerful our minds are. We can achieve anything with the right mindset. Change your thoughts and you will began a shift in your life that is incredibly wonderful. Don't mind others perspectives of you and realize that the only voice that matters is your own. You are the only person that can get you to where you want to be. You are the BOSS of your life, therefore,make decisions based on your instincts. We all have a SPARK inside of us that is waiting to be seen by all. This is your world so go make magic come true to you. You will never know, until you try. What if you miss out on something amazing because you were to scared to start? With lots of love, Lety